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  • 000. Library Index – Start Here
    Uncategorized

    000. Library Index – Start Here

    A growing library of essays written from lived experience to help individuals, institutions, and communities pursue…

  • 001. Silencing Shame: Why survivors stay silent
    Survivors’ Stories

    001. Silencing Shame: Why survivors stay silent

    Collection: Survivors’ Stories Est. Read Time: 9 Minutes There are moments in life that divide everything…

  • 002. A Deadline for Justice: Can justice expire before healing begins?
    Justice

    002. A Deadline for Justice: Can justice expire before healing begins?

    Collection: Justice Est. Read Time: 8 Minutes I spent the early part of my career as…

  • 003. When Waiting Was No Longer an Option: My decision to file a civil lawsuit.
    Justice

    003. When Waiting Was No Longer an Option: My decision to file a civil lawsuit.

    Collection: Justice Est. Read Time: 9 Minutes I moved several times while I was growing up,…

  • 004. A Seat at the King’s Table: Who gets to tell us who we are?
    Faith

    004. A Seat at the King’s Table: Who gets to tell us who we are?

    Collection: Faith Est. Read Time: 8 Minutes A Story that Found Me Talking about faith can…

  • 005. Solitude: My way back from isolation
    Healing

    005. Solitude: My way back from isolation

    Collection: Healing Est. Read Time: 8 Minutes I’m not sure which came first: my natural enjoyment…

  • 006. Recognizing Invisible Injuries: Why the Survivor Justice Tax Prevention Act Matters
    Justice

    006. Recognizing Invisible Injuries: Why the Survivor Justice Tax Prevention Act Matters

    Collection: Justice Est. Read Time: 7 Minutes Until a few years ago, I had never given…

  • 007. I Hired an Attorney. I Still Had to Advocate for Myself. What my civil case taught me about choosing counsel.
    Justice

    007. I Hired an Attorney. I Still Had to Advocate for Myself. What my civil case taught me about choosing counsel.

    Collection: Justice Est. Read Time: 8 Minutes In another story, When Waiting Was No Longer an…

  • 008. A Friend That Almost Killed Me: The addiction that worked… Until it didn’t.
    Healing

    008. A Friend That Almost Killed Me: The addiction that worked… Until it didn’t.

    Collection: Healing Est. Read Time: 11 Minutes Alcohol was the best thing that ever happened to…

  • 009. Keep Moving Forward: What 100-miles taught me about healing.
    Hope

    009. Keep Moving Forward: What 100-miles taught me about healing.

    Collection: Hope Est. Read Time: 7 Minutes Standing up for yourself can be an arduous, exhausting,…

  • 010. When the Voices Get Loud: Learning to distrust the thoughts that want me dead.
    Hope

    010. When the Voices Get Loud: Learning to distrust the thoughts that want me dead.

    Collection: Hope Est. Read Time: 12 Minutes If you believe hurting yourself or ending your life…

  • 011. I Thought Justice Would Heal Me: What filing criminal charges could – and couldn’t – do.
    Justice

    011. I Thought Justice Would Heal Me: What filing criminal charges could – and couldn’t – do.

    Collection: Justice Est. Read Time: 10 Minutes I filed criminal charges against the man who abused…

  • 012. The Ninety-Nine: When communities become crowds
    Institutions

    012. The Ninety-Nine: When communities become crowds

    Collection: Institutions Est. Read Time: 10 Minutes I’ve wrestled with how I should write this essay.…

  • 013. How Can I Love God When the Church Hurt Me: Comparing Jesus to the church we’ve built.
    Faith

    013. How Can I Love God When the Church Hurt Me: Comparing Jesus to the church we’ve built.

    Collection: Faith Est. Read Time: 5 Minutes I love the church. I love people. I want…

  • 014. If I Sue the Church Will God Be Mad at Me? What I had to reconcile before pursuing civil action.
    Faith

    014. If I Sue the Church Will God Be Mad at Me? What I had to reconcile before pursuing civil action.

    Collection: Faith Est. Read Time: 8 Minutes I think it’s safe to say that most of…

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